Lath Mar Holi: An Indian Festival Where Women Beat Men With Sticks

Lath Mar Holi is a Hindu festival celebrated in Mathura, India
Lath Mar Holi is a Hindu festival celebrated in Mathura, India | © Alexander Mazurkevich/Shutterstock
Aditi Mukherjee

India is culturally diverse and many festivals of different religions are celebrated in the country. When it comes to religious festivities, Indians are probably the most ebullient and faithful. What else could explain a century-old, locally celebrated Hindu festival called Lath Mar Holi where women beat men with sticks? Here’s all about the festival – the celebration and why it’s performed.

What does Lath Mar Holi mean?

Lath (stick) mar (beat) Holi (the Hindu festival of colour). Together, the phrase means the festival of Holi where sticks are used to beat.

Women usually cover their face with sarees but here they lift them up to pose

How Lath Mar Holi is celebrated today

The celebration starts with women smearing colour on men and they make sure no one’s left out. Villagers sing folk songs and women dance for their audience. Sweet shops overflow with a cold drink called thandai which is prepared with an edible form of cannabis called bhang. On the next day, men arrive in Barsana again, and this time they try to smear colour on the women in the village. Then, the women take out sticks and try to beat the men who save themselves with shields. While men try to save themselves and each other, the women shout and cheer for their friends and urge them to chase and hit harder. All this is done in jest and everyone gathered participates in the fun.

The mythological story of Lath Mar Holi

Indian mythological stories write about Lord Krishna in different stages of his life. In his days as a young man, he was mischievous and playful. He often visited Barsana, the village where his beloved Radha used to live. Once, days before Holi, the Indian festival of colours, Krishna visited Barsana with his friends and, together, they teased Radha and her companions. Taking offence to this, Radha’s friends chased the men away with sticks. Lath Mar Holi festival is a re-enactment of this legend.

Women stand in queue for their turn to beat men with the sticks
Women cheer for their friends and urge them to hit harder

Where is Lath mar Holi celebrated?

Since the legend of Lath Mar Holi began with Krishna, the festival is celebrated in the Mathura district, where it is believed he was born. Krishna is one of the most popular and widely revered Hindu deities in India.

On the first day, men and women play with colours in Barsana
On the second day, the fun ritual of women beating men with sticks begins
The festival is a time when men and women have fun together
Women dance to folk songs all the time during the festival
Women get dressed up in their finer sarees for this annual festival

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